Stop Fighting, Start Loving :) and Create Your Most Joyful Life :)

If you’re feeling weary and worn-out from battling and struggling your way through Life, then it’s time to stop fighting, and embrace your Joy :)

Most of us have been taught to ‘fight for what you want’, ‘fight back’, ‘fight the good fight’, ‘keep fighting’ , ‘soldier on’ and ‘beat the competition’.

But Life is not supposed to be about fighting one exhausting battle after another :)

“You need not wrestle for your good. Your good flows to you most easily when you are relaxed, open, and trusting.” ~ Alan Cohen

At one point in my life I remember getting out of bed each weekday morning, and mentally pulling on my suit of armour, before clunk, clunk, clunking my way into my office, ready to ‘do battle’ with the day ahead.
Thankfully I realised that it wasn’t any fun and decided to enjoy my life instead :)

If you believe that Life is a struggle and that you have to ‘fight’ something, then you’re coming from a place of fear.
Fighting drains your energy and is stressful and counter-productive.

“You can never become a great man or woman until you have overcome anxiety, worry, and fear. It is impossible for an anxious person, a worried one, or a fearful one to perceive truth; all things are distorted and thrown out of their proper relations by such mental states, and those who are in them cannot read the thoughts of God. ~ Wallace D. Wattles

It’s impossible to perceive clarity and connect to your inspiration and enthusiasm when you are stressed, anxious and fearful, as you disconnect from your Authentic Self.
 
When you choose to live in integrity and embrace your Joy, you’re coming from a loving place in your heart, and your life will reflect that harmony. You feel empowered, inspired and energised.

“You cannot struggle to joy. Struggle and joy are not on the same channel. You joy your way to joy. You laugh your way to success. It is through your joy that good things come.” ~ Abraham-Hicks

Life is not a battlefield :) You can choose to embrace Joy whatever your situation, and focus on the Good Stuff.

“Our civilization has not done a good job with the energies of delight and joy. Yet these emotions are the very essence of life and what directs your inner guidance to bring abundance to your life.”
~ Dr. Christiane Northrup

Focus your thoughts on what makes you feel good, do what makes you happy, have more fun, lighten up, love YourSelf more, and choose to enJOY Life.

“The more joyful you are, the more well-being flows to you.” ~ Abraham-Hicks

• You can choose to embrace Wellness, instead of ‘fighting’ illness.

• You don’t have to ‘beat’ the competition and ‘fight your way to the top’.

• You don’t have to argue and fight to prove that you’re better, or that others are wrong.

• You don’t have to fight to defend yourself every time others don’t agree with you.

• You don’t have to take offence at other people’s behaviour.

Just show up as your Most Wonderful You :)

 “Everything you are against weakens you. Everything you are for empowers you.”
 ~ Dr Wayne Dyer

Life is so much easier and more fun :) when you allow yourself to connect to your Joy and create the outcomes you want, instead of fighting for results.

"I create easily and effortlessly when I let my thoughts come from the loving space of my own heart." ~ Louise L. Hay

Take off your armour, put down your weapons, love YourSelf more, Be your Most Wonderful You, and Create your Most Joyful Life :)

With love,

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Check In with Yourself and Focus on Your 'Right Life'

Most of us lead busy lives with many external distractions. People often say that they “don’t have time to think”.
But we’re actually thinking all the time. There’s a constant chatter going on in our heads.
The Buddhists call it ‘Monkey Mind’ – as we jump from thought to thought like monkeys swinging from tree to tree.
We have to learn to be aware of, and deliberately control our thoughts; choosing thoughts that empower and inspire us and contemplating only what we want to see in our lives.

“The most valuable skill that you could ever develop is the skill of directing your thoughts toward what you want—to be adept at quickly evaluating all situations and then quickly coming to the conclusion of what you most want—and then giving your undivided attention to that.” ~ Esther & Jerry Hicks

It’s essential to take some quiet time to check in with yourself every day.
"Hi Self, how are you feeling? What do you need? What do you want? What can I do for you?"
It’s important to listen to yourself  and to do what you need to do to take care of you.

Usually our minds start racing as soon as we wake up in the morning.
Before you get out of bed and start your day, take a minute to check in with yourself.
Think about what you're grateful for and what you’d like for the day ahead.

“If you will bring yourself to a more deliberate control of your own thought, you will bring yourself to a more deliberate control of your own life experience.”~ Esther & Jerry Hicks

Whenever you find yourself worrying and getting anxious or distressed, keep bringing your thoughts back to focus only on what you want.
If you’re saying “I don’t have time to think”, what you’re really saying is that you’re your own life is not important enough to think about.
What happens then, is that you’re constantly reacting to what is going on around you, instead of being in control and steering your life in the direction that you’d like it to go.

When you make it an habitual daily practice to focus your thoughts on the life that you want, that powerful intention will create your reality.

"Your mind will be like its habitual thoughts; for the soul becomes dyed with the colour of its thoughts. Soak it then in such trains of thoughts as, for example: Where life is possible at all, a right life is possible." ~ Marcus Aurelius

Check in with your soul daily, focus your thoughts on your 'right life' and Get Your Glow On :)
With Love
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