Choose to leave Victimville and Get Your Glow ON!

Dearest Glorious GloWomen,

One of the most emPowering things you can do for YourSelf is to realise that only You are responsible for Your Wonderful Life!

And the quickest way out of Victimville, is to lose the blame and to take responsibility to step into your power to choose.

You can choose to get your woe on…..OR You can choose to get your Glow on!
You always have the choice to respond, rather than to re-act to your circumstances. 

So here’s to choosing your emPowered response.

Even if you’ve experienced the most adverse circumstances – your circumstances don’t have to define who you are. Being victimised does not make you ‘a victim’ - unless you choose to let it. So why would you let it? 😊

So dearest GloWomen, here’s a helpful GlowTip if you’re feeling powerless and that Life has got you down…
The quickest way out of Victimville is to choose to be a CREATOR of Your Most JOYful Life and not a victim of circumstances! 

Choose thoughts, word and actions that UPlift and emPower Wonderful You! 💞

Because choosing Love, Laughter and JOY and all the Good Stuff, is a lot more fun than feeling stuck in Victimville! 

And the easiest way to steer YourSelf towards Rocking your most Wonderful Life is to choose to enJOY the ride! 

With Love and JOY, 

 

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So I’ve decided to share 50 GlowTips to Get Your Glow ON – one per day, in no particular order of importance and just as they come to me…

And here’s #GlowTip 10) You are not your circumstances!

And you are not the roles that you play.

It doesn’t matter who you were, where you’ve come from, what you’ve done, or what you’re doing now — your circumstances and roles don’t define who you are.

Circumstances and the roles we play can change in an instant — and then who are we? And my answer to that is: I am still Me!

When we start identifying ourselves with where we are and what we do — we limit ourselves and give up our power to choose. And often this can keep us stuck in Victimville.

I’ve been rich, I’ve been poor, I’ve been in a long-term relationship, I’ve been single, I’ve been a partner in a successful business, I’ve been unemployed, I’ve been a stepmother, I’ve been a boss, I’ve been a freelancer, I’ve been a mentor, I’ve been overweight, I’ve been underweight, I’ve been a smoker, I’ve been unfit, I’ve been a student, I’ve been a teacher, I’ve been an expert, I’ve been a beginner, I’ve been…..so many things that do not define who I am!

I am whomever I choose to be right now!
And I’m not prepared to allow my circumstances to define me.
I’d rather create circumstances to reflect who I am!

Society loves to give us labels. But we don’t have to take those on as our identity. Who we are is so much more than our circumstances.

I choose to be abundantly healthy, wealthy, happy, loving and joyful — regardless of my circumstances; regardless of where I am and who I’m with.

So never mind the circumstances — here’s to being whomever we choose to be!

I choose to be Me!

With Love,

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44 Days to Go: I'm Turning 50! 50 GlowTips I’m sharing to Spread the Glow!

44 Days to go until I turn 50!

So I’ve decided to share 50 GlowTips to Get Your Glow ON – one per day, in no particular order of importance and just as they come to me…

And here's GlowTip 7: The quickest way out of Victimville is to use your power to choose!

There is nothing that makes us feel quite so powerless as thinking that we have no control over our own lives. But most of the time, without realising it, we’ve given that power away.

Because, no matter our circumstances, we always have a choice.

We may not always have control over what’s happening around us, but we can always choose how we respond - we can always choose the emPowering view!
And (see yesterday’s GlowTip 6) that always starts with deciding what we want to experience.

The thing I hated most about being a child, was knowing that other people had power over me. Being told what to wear, how to behave, what to do and who to do it with really grated my independent, self-determined spirit. I couldn’t wait to be able to make my own decisions. I couldn’t wait to live life on my terms. And that in itself was an emPowering choice!

I see people feeling hopeless about their circumstances, feeling hopeless about their future, and being terrified of what will happen to them – all the time not realising that all of it is totally up to them!

Nobody else has the power to choose the thoughts you think, what you believe, how you respond and what you decide to do – unless you let them!

Your perception of Life is a choice. If you don’t like what you’re seeing, you can choose to look at it another way. 

Look for the UPside. Look for all the Good Stuff that you CAN create and experience. And this will open up a whole new world of emPowering choices for you.

Using your power of choice is the quickest way out of Victimville! And you CAN choose to enJOY the ride!

With Love, 

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